A number of years ago I was talking with some friends at a sewing class and we were talking about what we had made and what we had plans to make. I kept saying, yep, I have one of those started, and yep, I have one of those started too. One person that was there said to me, “Don’t you EVER finish ANYTHING?” Well she was certainly rude and crude, but knowing her I knew that she was just that. Since I don’t want to ever call names, as that would be rude, I’ll just call her Mrs. Rude.
However, thanks to Mrs. Rude, I started a sewing diary. She made me second guess myself and made me really think about things, … DO I EVER FINISH ANYTHING? Well, I knew I did but it made me think hard about it and made me want to keep track of what I do with my time. I knew that many times I finish something then it is given away, or it is a class sample and may hang in a shop for 3 to 6 months. In both cases it is out of sight therefore it is out of mind. I decided I should start writing down everything that I finish, not what I start but what I actually do finish.
A couple months later in this same group I told them about my sewing diary and everyone just loved the idea of it, everyone except Mrs. Rude. She said, WELL!!! YOU CAN”T MAKE A QUILT IN A DAY!!!… as a quilt was one of my latest entries. I informed her that I did not make a quilt in a day… but actually you can, and I have… but I was just putting the date in my diary that I finshed a qult, I explained again that I am just trying to keep track of what I finish. Ok, let’s say I started a quilt last year or year before… but I just got it finished… binding on…. lable attached… it is done!! YEAH… so I write in my dairy “Quilt”… with a discription, for… with a name of who is for or what it is for and the date!
Fortunately enough I started my sewing diary at the beginning of the year. My goal was to finish one thing a week. Ok… in a year’s time one thing a week, take off a couple weeks for vacation and holidays I should have somewhere between 45 to 5o items finished by the end of the year. Not a bad number since some items take much longer to complete that others. Well, in July that year we were meeting again and I thought I might give a “report” on how the sewing diary was working out for me. I sat down and numbered the items. Ok… so one entry was”hemmed pants”. After that entry there was the number 5, so is that 1 item or 5,? I decided it should count as 5 items since it was 5 different things. The next entry was “Poodle Skirts” X 10…. For the local community theater. Ok, 1 or 10? Of course I made 10 poodle skirts so therefore it was 1 job but 10 items. I continued counting and my number of “finished” items was well over 300. I was totally shocked to say the least!!! I knew that no one would believe me so I just decided to not say a word about the sewing diary. Mrs. Rude would surely have some rebuff about it so I decided not to go there. Who needs that anyway?
I have continued each year to start a new sewing diary. I do wish I had kept all my my dairies all these year, I am on year number 11 and each year my numbers are well into the 100′s. I would actually love to know the number of items I have finished as I can’t even remember all of them anymore.
I encourage all of my sewing friends and students to keep a sewing diary. I tell them the story about Mrs. Rude saying, DON”T YOU EVER FINISH ANYTHING???” How she wasn’t a friend, was rude but really gave me something to think about and made me think of a nice way to keep track of what I make, finish and do with my time.
Keeping a sewing diary is a great way to see just what you do accomplish, a nice way to pat yourself on the back without seeming to brag to anyone. However, since I now have such a great group of sewing buddies and students, who mostly turn into buddies as well, we all discuss our diary openly.
We all are so surprised at how much can be accomplished and sometimes we discuss is that one job but several items and how do we count it. Usually we decide that hemming a pair of pants is 2 legs but only 1 item, therefore 1 item, 1 count, hemming 5 pair of pants is 10 legs but still only five items, even if they are all for 1person or 1 job. Is it great to have such a great group who loves what they do and you share that love and all have a great understanding about what we are all so involved in. How lucky we are.
By the way, either Mrs. Rude or I one have moved on and we are no longer associated in the same circles, for which I am proud. Anytime you are around a rude or negative person it rubs off and we all know that no one wants to be around someone like that. I much prefer being with my happy group, being happy and supportive, having fun and counting our accomplishments.
In case you are wondering, I am up over 50 items already for this year. I have been busy but not as busy as I am every year. I took some time off this summer and have enjoyed doing some other things. However I plan to reach at least 100 by years end. I hope you will join me. If not, remember your sewing diary is just for you and your benifit, sharing with others is an option. Do it, you will be glad you did!
Until next time,
Kathy